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Complete the Gratitude (three good things) exercise for a week and record at least two days worth you good things with their causal explanation.
Here is two days from my “3 good things a day” journal I am keeping as part of my personal leadership paper.
Friday
Had a jam session at work.
I worked hard all week and as a team we had a great jam session as a reward for a great weeks work.
Completed my project goals at work.
I worked close to the project plan and used my expertise to develop a new promotional tool for my companies website.
Organised going to Auckland for Iaido seminar.
I have been training hard at Iaido and want to meet more people who practice this art.
Wednesday
My partner got a job offer.
I encouraged her and helped her complete a video project that has led to her landing a full job.
I gave to the Tsunami relief fund and encouraged others to do the same through the use of social media tools.
I felt that it was a good cause and I knew I if syndicated it out to my social networks many others would give to the cause too… over $10,000 was raised as a result.
A fellow student shared his work with me.
I took time to get to know a fellow student who I ended up helping out by introducing him to my companies CEO for him to do a report. He has since trusted me enough to share his report with me and we are also looking to share some study workload for the upcoming MGMT208 exam.
Hopeful Thinking
We have been looking at hope as part of leadership at university, particularly “Hope theory” part of positive psychology which sets out that hope is the perception of attainable goals which you can reach through multiple pathways and sustained motivation (also called agency thinking).
I ran my BHAG goal through a Hope goals assesment questionare to get a better idea if my goal meet the criteria of being “Hopeful” for my personal development assessment.
First the goal itself:
Leading a community of technology developers which helps make online technology intuitive and encouraging the business world to adopt and understand technology to build communities around ideas and products.
My goal is something I have ownership over, that is it fits within my values and purpose in life. It is attainable and an approach goal. It is also a goal that others might have similar goals to (which is great as I can ally with those that share similar ideas, goals and hope as me).
Pathways to my goal are many, I could find others that are also working towards this goal and work with them, start my own company, work freelance, do consulting work or contribute to and help lead online communities around building and using new technologies. All these ways to acheive my goal fit within my values though I do want to learn more around project management particularly Agile Software Development which is entirely feasible and within my power to go out and learn.
Motivation towards this goal (Agency) is my main barrier at the moment however putting my goal into a personal development plan (PDP) and working through how to reach this goal has been building excitment and hope that I can reach my goal. I ended up adding a section or sub-goal into my PDP around building more positve self-talk through learned optimism and affirmation techniques. Those internal resistences always pop up when we set a lofty goal but being something I really want to do I’m positive a little self improvement can do no harm.
Anyway, My PDP was handed in on Monday so once the lecturer has had a chance to mark it I will be releasing here on the blog so keep checking back.
